Blue Deer Center News

Posted January 28, 2011

Mark your Calendars for this upcoming mainstay of the Center. Saturday, June 11th. There is much to do to put this event on, and we are looking for people to help out in all capacities from overall coordination, cooking, set-up, silent auction, liaison with Elders and more.

The theme -- Ancestral Traditions Come Home -- for Fireball 2011 was inspired by fire. This year the Fireball will be hosting four Elders from ancestral traditions. These Elders will be available throughout the day for informal talks and a chance to sit with them and chat.

There will also be the fire in the evening for a more formal talk and presentation by these Elders. Fireball 2011 – Ancestral Traditions Come Home will be a unique and rare opportunity to meet, learn and be with these inspiring people.

If you would like to help to plan this event, please contact Peter Brown at

Learn more

Posted January 17, 2011

Ukilái: (Uh-key-lá-ee) is a word in the Huichol indigenous language that means “a man who has reached a level of maturity and has taken on the responsibilities of spirit, community, and family.” A Ukilái has found his role and place within himself, the community and in the world and therefore is a support for himself and others.

In the indigenous world and the life of our ancestors, the masculine ones were initiated, taught, and guided to interact with each other, the feminine, the community and with the spirits. Knowing who they were, men found a home within themselves and produced balanced relationship with others.

In our culture these roles, references, guides and knowledge have been lost or greatly diminished. The incessant drive and indoctrination of social, economic and materialistic demands of modernity has replaced them. This new paradigm places consumerism, change for change’s sake, and mind over the power of heart at the center of daily life. As a result, we find ourselves alienated from our place and role in the world. As spouses, potential spouses, fathers, sons and brothers we experience breakdown in our relationships with others.

In a culture that constantly imposes these conditions, there comes a time when withdrawing in retreat is necessary to reconnect to the essential being of the masculine, to discover the navigation of one’s heart, to clear, refresh and renew one’s direction in life. Rather than a class or workshop, Ukilái represents a pilgrimage to one’s soul and masculine kinship in order to bring about a restoration. Therefore participation in the Ukilái retreat provides support on an ongoing basis to one’s vision, direction and relationship to others and the world.

At the Retreat I felt an incredibly joyful sense of connection and euphoria, not only with the other men, but also with life and the world. I found this sense of connection similar to the feelings I experienced at the birth of my children and on my wedding day. I experienced the wonderful healing that occurs when we are being truly accepted for who we are. Without a doubt the Men’s Retreat was a life changing experience – a beautiful and mysterious space providing a deep and rich renewal for men from all walks of life. — Phil Roberts

Posted January 15, 2011

We are launching our new website and appreciate all feedback. Feel free to contact us.


You can leave a message using the contact form below.
This question is for testing whether you are a human visitor and to prevent automated spam submissions.
8 + 1 =
Solve this simple math problem and enter the result. E.g. for 1+3, enter 4.